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Kate Spade Girl

Come join me as I share my love of life, fashion, shoes, baking, and being a mom to 4 children! I simply adore Kate Spade & all her beautiful collections, and use it as my inspiration each and every day! Come Eat Cake For Breakfast with me!



I haven’t forgotten my blog, it’s just that we are in the middle of some huge life changes, and I have not made blogging a priority over the last month. I do try to keep up on Instagram, some days are better than others! 

Some recent outfits:
Went to a film premiere last night in Hollywood, Boo! A Madea Halloween. Which, is HILARIOUS. My husband picked out this dress, it’s a Kay Unger and it has POCKETS:

Best part? It officially opens on my birthday! It’s actually a movie I would let the kids watch, it has a good message. 

We have a new friend, Roxy, who is enjoying her happily ever after with Rocky:

I’ve added many dresses over the last month (oops), but I’m not excited about the recent Kate Spade released, which does make my bank account happy. I really need to finish the closet clean out I started, it’s a little out of control in there!

Biggest news is my husband has taken a job in Los Angeles, which means we will be moving there within the next couple of years. I’m still kind of in shock it all went down, it was fast and completely unexpected! He has settled in nicely, and the upheaval we’ve been going through the last few weeks seems to be calming down finally this week. Not sure how I feel yet about being LA bound, but it should be an interesting adventure!

Until next time,


A BIG Recap

The last few weeks have been utter chaos in my household! Some big changes for our family, and as such I just have put blogging on the back burner (but sadly for my bank account, not shopping. Lol!)

Some recent outfits (in no particular order):

Dress & Shoes are both Kate Spade

  1. Dress: Vintage (worn on the show Astronaut Wives)
  2. Belt: Oscar de la Renta
  3. Shoes: Christian Louboutin strassed by me
  4. Handbag: Kate Spade (recent purchase!)
  5. Necklace: Vintage (late 1800’s early 1900’s, and old diamond piece I’ve had for years)

  1. Cardigan: Kate Spade (2+ years old)
  2. Dress: Kate Spade Jillian (4+ years ago?)
  3. Shoes: Christian Louboutin
  4. Handbag: Kate Spade

  1. Top: t-shirt from Kohls (I think? Or Target)
  2. Belt: Kate Spade
  3. Skirt: Kate Spade
  4. Shoes: Christian Louboutin
  5. Necklace: costume pearls with a vintage brooch

  1. Dress: Kate Spade (love this one!)
  2. Belt: secondhand
  3. Shoes: Christian Louboutin
  4. Handbag: Kate Spade

  1. Dress: Prada
  2. Belt: Oscar de la Renta
  3. Shoes & Bag: Kate Spade

  1. Dress: Kate Spade
  2. Shoes: Christian Louboutin 
  3. Handbag: Kate Spade

This one was ALL Kate Spade (I have a problem y’all!)

Went to downtown LA last week and finally visited “The Last Bookstore” (highly recommended, but park elsewhere and take an uber. Parker is a NIGHTMARE right there!) Coolest bookstore EVER. They had the most insane selection, I was in heaven! And I got an incredible recommendation for a new fantasy fiction series to start reading! (I am a total nerd)

So much else has gone on, but I can’t go into detail just yet, but I am super excited for all the changes coming. I just know it’s going to be a crazy time soon, as we start the process. Keep up with me on Instagram, as I tend to post there more! 

Until next time,


Holiday Weekend

Woot! Hello 3-day weekend! I’ve had kind of an interesting week, some major changes happening in my world and when I have things going on I tend to lose myself either in a pair of shoes or baking in the kitchen. This week it was baking! TONS of French Macarons! 

Just a few of the many MANY dozens I made. There is something fulfilling about seeing them all lined up! 

Yesterday I wore this:

  1. Blouse: Forever 21 (old)
  2. Skirt & Belt: Kate Spade
  3. Shoes: Kate Spade

And today:

  1. Dress: Kate Spade Wrap Dress (circa 2010-2011 I believe? It’s an older one!)
  2. Shoes: Kate Spade (also older, they are a kitten heel)

Did you see that sale is an additional 25% off this weekend online? I have some gift cards, so I may pick up one or two smaller items, but I am limiting myself for the month of September, as I went a LITTLE overboard for the month of August. I have one more big order coming from Kate Spade next week as well. OOPS. 

I really need to cull my closet a bit more. I started a “closet” on Instagram ( Right here ) to unload pieces that I no longer wear, use, or items I purchased for someone at the outlets, and then was never paid for them and often times forget to return them. I know holidays are coming and I do have a few NWT items. I still need to bite the bullet and get rid of dresses I know I will NEVER EVER wear, but keep for sentimental reasons. Sigh. I’m totally a fashion hoarder!

Until next time,



It’s still summer, and it still FEELS like summer, August is typically hot and humid and this year is no exception. On the bright side, it means I can wear linen and not worry about wrinkles!!!!

  1. Dress: Kate Spade (WAY old, from one of the first collections. I have this same dress with a different trim too)
  2. Belt: Oscar de la Renta
  3. Shoes: Kate Spade Eleni In Blush (new for fall!)
  4. Handbag: Kate Spade Small Rachelle (outlet style, they bring it out in the Ballet Slipper in late winter/early spring)

I’ve been spending most of my time this week in the kitchen:

Lots and lots of Macarons this week! Eeks. Also, a reminder that sale items at Kate Spade are an additional 25% off through next Tuesday! Outlets have a sale too, but I don’t know what exactly it is. I’m trying to be good, I might have over indulged during the splurge and save this month. OOPS! 

Until next time,


Monday, oh Monday

Oh Monday, we meet again.  Sometimes you kick my butt.  Today was one of those days, albeit self inflicted!  Something about using the excuse of driving teenagers to an event in Irvine to justify a quick trip to Disneyland yesterday, which was late enough in the afternoon to hit traffic (people coming home from Vegas), and result in returning home late (after my Sunday 9pm bedtime).  But it was fun and worth it, especially for Rocky to experience more Disney fun! (My friends were still there, and we spend the 4 hours I had in California Adventure, with some amazing “anytime” fast passes, SCORE!)

  1. Dress: Kate Spade Chambray (it was a little heavy for the weather though, it was warmer than forecasted)
  2. Shoes: Christian Louboutin, strassed in Alexandrite AB
  3. Handbag: Kate Spade
  4. Troll: Rocky

And today, work beckoned….sadly! 

  1. Dress: Kate Spade (older style, yes I own it in white AND green too….hey it has pockets!)
  2. Belt: Kate Spade
  3. Handbag: Kate Spade (new September 2016 collection, online and in stores right now…and there is a splurge & save through the end of the month!)
  4. Shoes: Kate Spade (match the bag)

I really REALLY love these heels:

My husband doesn’t care much for the stacked/chunky heel (I get it!), but they are so comfortable that I will sacrifice style for the fact that I was on my feet today for 8+ hours.  Some days, you just need to be comfortable!

Until next time,


Meet Rocky

No, Rocky is not a purse….he is a rock troll I rescued from a dark bin yesterday:

Yes. I became that crazy adult who carried a stuffed animal around Disneyland. With a Fox Purse. 

I know. I have ISSUES. But man it was fun! I even went to a “character breakfast” (wait, WHAT?!):

It was fun. I ate too much:

(And I even had more than that. OOPS!)

My dress is Kate Spade, one that I finally tracked down! I love it. My fox purse is also Kate Spade, available at your local outlet and maybe still online? (If the surprise sale is still up?)

Wednesday I wore this:

  1. Dress: Kate Spade
  2. Belt: JCrew
  3. Shoes: Kate Spade (bought them last weekend, they are SO comfortable!)

And today I pulled out my favorite white linen dress….it was easy as I was exhausted this morning!

  1. Dress: Kate Spade (old, one of the first clothing releases)
  2. Belt: JCrew
  3. Shoes: Kate Spade
  4. Handbag: Kate Spade 

I LOVE this bag. It’s so pretty and the cross body + regular straps makes it very versatile. It’s like a Quinn & Small Rachelle bag rolled into one! Hits stores next week (I think?), and should be online soon!

Oh and I made more cake today, carrot walnut:

Yes, that is Gilmore Girls on my iPad….how did I NEVER watch that show before?! Thank you Netflix!!

One last photo of Rocky: (okay two)

I know. I will be that batty grandmother one day with crazy purses and stuffed animals everywhere! Have a great weekend!

Until next time,


Let Them Eat Cake….

Chocolate peanut butter cake

Kate Spade Cake:

Sigh. It’s even larger than I anticipated, which is awesome, as you could fit a small bottle of water in this “cake”! I expect it will mainly be a display piece in my house, but I’ll have to take it out at some point! As a baker, I could not resist. Thank you to a special someone for this one!!

My outfit today:

  1. Blouse: JCrew
  2. Skirt: Kate Spade (old, 3-4 years ago?)
  3. Belt: Kate Spade (Nordstrom, 2+ years ago)
  4. Shoes: Christian Louboutin
  5. Handbag: Kate Spade

Oh and to make matters worse, I went to the outlet this morning and HAD to bring this critter home:

Mr Fox needs a proper name. Isn’t he adorable?! Makes me regret not snagging the owl cross body last summer that was the same size. This is also online at the surprise sale (and it’s the same price in stores as online), as is the other newly released fox items for outlet!! 

Until next time,